Practice Area
Family Law
Steady guidance through divorce, custody, and support.
6 months
of irreconcilable differences is the most common ground for divorce in New Jersey
1 year
of New Jersey residence is generally required before you can file
Best interests
of the child is the standard behind every custody decision
Age 19
is when child support generally ends, unless a court extends it
How we help with family law
Family law matters are personal, and they deserve counsel that is both compassionate and assertive. Gray Law Group assesses the dynamics of each family to build a strategy that fits — whether that means a measured negotiation, mediation, or determined courtroom advocacy. We balance strong representation with sensitivity to the long-term well-being of you and your children, from the first conversation through final resolution and any future modifications.
Matters we handle
- Divorce and separation
- Child custody and parenting time
- Child and spousal support
- Equitable distribution of property
- Modifications and domestic-violence restraining orders
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Common Questions
Family Law FAQs
How much does an uncontested divorce cost in New Jersey?
Costs vary with the complexity of your finances and how much is agreed upon. An uncontested divorce is generally far less expensive than a litigated one; we give you a clear picture at the outset.
How is custody decided in NJ?
New Jersey courts decide custody based on the best interests of the child, weighing many factors. We help you present a parenting plan that protects your relationship with your children.
Can a support or custody order be changed later?
Yes. When circumstances change substantially, orders can be modified. We handle support and custody modifications on both sides.
How long does a divorce take in New Jersey?
It depends on how much is in dispute. When spouses agree on everything, a divorce can often be finalized in a matter of months. A contested divorce involving custody, a business or significant assets can take a year or longer.
Is New Jersey a 50/50 state when dividing property?
No. New Jersey divides marital property equitably, which means fairly in light of statutory factors — not automatically in half. Property acquired by gift or inheritance from someone other than your spouse is generally exempt.
Do I have to go to court to get divorced?
Most New Jersey divorces settle without a trial. Even an uncontested divorce generally ends with a brief court hearing at which the judge enters the final judgment incorporating your agreement.
Know where you stand
Family Law in New Jersey, explained
Plain-language answers to the questions people ask before they call a lawyer.
How it works
What to expect when you work with us
A confidential first conversation
You tell us what is happening. We explain the law that applies to your family, the options in front of you and the likely path from here.
A plan, and immediate protection
We set the strategy and deal with what can't wait — a temporary parenting schedule, support while the case is pending, or a restraining order.
Disclosure and negotiation
Financial disclosure, custody mediation, the Early Settlement Panel and economic mediation. Most New Jersey divorces resolve at this stage.
Resolution, and what comes after
A signed settlement agreement or, if needed, a trial. When life changes later, we handle modifications and enforcement.
Free consultation
Talk to a family law attorney
Tell us briefly what is happening. We'll get back to you to talk it through — confidentially, and with no obligation.
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